First do not double post second post in the correct section the how to section is not for your above questions.
Third considering that you just made a post stating your inability to get your network going how are you expecting to connect with a messenger to a network? I would suggest you work on one thing at a time. Start with this thread and work your way through the links/tutorials/guides.
EDIT: This is the last time that I will tell you to follow the rules, you agreed to uphold them when you signed up here.
Furthermore if you expect to get any help then you will need to start answering the questions that are asked.