with the driver found there I downloaded the generic kernel headers from Ubuntu repo's and installed the driver with make install
and now I have a working wifi card... yay... but no injection... booo...
is the result when trying to enable monitor mode, no mon0 or anything, and it doesn't inject... maybe there will be a patch for it soon? =)
Interface Chipset Driver
wlan0 Unknown rtl819xSE (monitor mode enabled)
I didn't read up enough and there were more instructions to getting this to work... I'm sorry I don't have that link anymore but... I'll leave the rest just in case it helps anyone