I'm wondering - are you making the completely un-obvious mistake of thinking that because nothing appears you have not got a connection?
After a small amount of time, try typing "id" and hitting enter (obviously without the quotes).
Just curious, I've seen it before (but haven't tried this one out just yet I think, so might not be the case).
Also does tcpdump ONLY show one "attempt" at connection, or do you get the full SYN/SYN+ACK/ACK going... and then the blank screen?



