When you use that type of Tap, then you'll actually need to have two Nics in the machine that's listening to the network one Nic for transmit and the other for receive.
Your passthru connection should work no matter what is plugged into the taps, but you'll only be able to get traffic on transmit or receive, not both with this design.
You could make a fullduplex tap, just by chaining another Cat5 jack in the middle of your passthru.
It is also very important that you do not have TCP/IP bound to the Nic that is listening in.




