We have the general IT area for exactly that, "general IT" where we can talk about "IT" related stuff thats not related to backtrack. If you have a boil on your ass and you need some suggestions on what to do from balding parrot I suggest you get his IM addy and keep that shit private. There are lots of mediums of communication on the inturwub for friends who want to get "closer". I for one dont feel like sifting through a bunch of "general crap" looking for people who want to talk about illegal stuff in some sort of l33t speak code I'm to old to understand.
Just my 2 cents. I will leave the thread open so that you can see how some of the other members feel about your thoughts. I 'm doing this so I'm not accused of giving my opinion and then closing the thread.
Maybe you should check out facebook,myspace or eharmony.com or some thing along those lines.