extremely slow data collection, occaitional deauth/associated notices

So I am having no luck trying to get the wifi key of my own network and its driving me crazy. This is how im going about it.

airodump-ng wlan0
new konsole type
airodump-ng -w wep -c (my channel) --bssid (my mac) wlan0
close first konsole
open new konsole type
aireplay-ng -1 0 -a (mac) wlano
ctrl c on the page that is sending and recieving data then type
aireplay-ng -3 -b (mac) wlan0

from here the trouble starts. It takes forever for it to start getting arp requests and the #data increases at a rate so slow it literally would take weeks to reach 30,000 (also im right next to the AP)
another thing is in between arp requests I occasionally get the occational deauth/disassoc packet notice

any idea on why this is? whats going on? how to remedy this?

thanks a bunch!

Let's start with the aircrack-ng documentation, since this is a covered topic. They have good stuff that will solve this non-issue.